Our ex narc-elder picked his arguments carefully, especially when other ‘witnesses’ were present. Narcs are deliberate and cunning in their setups/frame-ups of others and they are always protecting their image. They often bring their alternate reality into the argument- in some cases outright lies. They have no sense of mutual regard or empathy. It’s all about how YOU are wrong, defective, etc. Our ex narc-elder (and all narcs) are emotional weaklings. Check out the following video from Dr. Carter.
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