Six ways to test the Jezebel Spirit residing in the narc-elder:
1. Say ‘no’ when you want to.
2. Throw the narc a ‘fake’ bone. See if they run with something you reveal about yourself. They love getting info/dirt/insight on you so they can later use it against you.
3. Ask them open ended questions to see what they reveal.
4. Verify the information they provide you when you can.
5. Test for double standards.
6. Question their gossip.