A very important video dealing with a Narc’s messages of rejection (or condemnation) and how you can overcome this classic form of gaslighting.
Our ex narc-elder used this form of gaslighting quite frequently; when I stood up and exposed him he turned the tables and played the victim to the local assembly while doubling-down in his efforts to smear me. It was (and is) all part of his coverup regarding his sins/hypocrisy. He truly is a wolf-in-sheep’s clothing, continuing his carnage of narcissistic spiritual abuse on current members of his cult.