I have been thinking deeply about narcissistic abuse and the hurt/damage it causes… while I am still examining and praying about this I feel God is telling me that forgiveness and love are the ultimate tools for healing and recovery.
Someone once said to me, [paraphrased]: ‘It’s more important to realize that although you may have been wronged, e.g., lied about, etc,… the Lord knows the truth. Many lied about Jesus as well.’
This letting-go and letting-God is a deep level of God’s work in us as we heal and recover. I am learning more and more, that despite the narcissistic abuse I may have endured, faith, hope and love are keys to healing and recovery,… and the greatest of these is LOVE. Regardless of our abuse, and who was right or wrong, we must forgive and in many cases we need God’s help to do this…. More on this topic later as it is revealed to me.