I wish I had known these tips when I was escaping our narc-elder. He was very cunning and deliberate in his deception and positioning to hurt his victims as he was preparing to discard. Lies, slander, libel, defamation, false narratives, frame-ups, smears, and outright excommunication: all to discredit anyone who dare oppose him or EXPOSE his sins and faults to the local fellowship. He will soon be reaping what he has sown, as out of his own mouth he has condemned himself and his Uber-hypocrisy. Check out the video below to learn about the escape process by Dr. Ramani.
Psalms 82:4 Rescue the poor and needy: Deliver them out of the hand of the wicked.