Our ex narc-elder would blame-shift and frame-up his victims, weeks, months and even years ahead of his discard stage; he would justify his actions with the local congregation under the cover of ‘Church correction.’ He would throw folks he deemed ‘factious’ under-the-bus and reveal sins that were confessed/repented of years prior with the intent to smear, libel and turn the congregation against these individuals. It was very disturbing to watch him do these actions with a twinkle in his eyes and an evil grin on his face. :o)
Narcissists are difficult to interact with due to their controlling, entitled ways, but when they also have strong sociopathic tendencies, their dysfunction goes to an even higher level. Dr. Les Carter explains how sociopaths not only disregard you, but also societal norms in general. It is essential to understand how they think and operate so you can avoid the hurt they generate. Remember, narcissists FEED off of hurting you, like vampires.