Our ex narc-elder leverages ALL of these gaslighting techniques. He is so full of pride/ego that he cannot receive correction- he hasn’t for years. :o)
He has a Christ or God-complex and has a huge boulder on his property with a plaque that says ‘Stone Which The Builders Rejected.’ This quote is often associated with Jesus Christ and His persecution, yet the inference is that our ex narc-elder is the one who has suffered persecution by ‘factious’ people. In reality, he is deflecting from the fact that he IS the source of faction/discord amongst the brethren.
See picture of the boulder/sign and gaslighting video below.