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Narcissism 101 [Foundational Videos]
Here are some videos and notes to help form a foundation of understanding regarding narcissism. Although narcissists vary in their own personalities and methods, there are some common attributes and rules that apply to ALL. Understanding Narcissism is critical to establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries and relationships. – Nathan_Jehu
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How to ID a Narcissist [Below].
A Foundation of Narcissism [Below].
A Checklist for Identifying Narcissists [Below]. Textbooks and manuals will identify ingredients to help you know what narcissism is, focusing on traits like high control, low empathy, entitlement, and so forth.
Dealing with Narcissists’ Arguments [Below]. Because narcissists are so dominant and controlling, they have a knack for steering relationships into conflict.
Victim Blaming by Narcissists [Below]. In conflict, narcissists cannot allow themselves to admit faults or to accept responsibility for their poorly managed emotions.
Mind-games of the Narcissist [Below].
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A Narcissist’s False Self
Narcissists present you with a False Self. Religious-Narcs often present themselves as a type of the Apostle Peter or Paul and an Old Testament leader like Moses at the same time! They insist that God commissioned them with this honor and duty and they will twist scripture and use intense gaslighting to not only fool you, but themselves. This is straight-up delusion and begs the question: what caused them to slip into this state of delusion?
One theory I have is that they did not have a love for the truth, especially the truth of their actions and abuses that harmed others. You can discern these delusional religious-narcs fairly easily by their steadfast refusal to take ownership and repent of sins/actions others bring to their attention.
They are not being setup by Satan, no… they are setup by God Himself (2 Thessalonians 2:10-12)– this is the worse position they can be in!
Knowing how this delusion of FALSE SELF happens to these narcs can assist us as we determine how to interact with them.
Check out the video from Dr Carter about the Narc’s False SELF.
How Narcissists Build A Case Against You
Because a narcissist’s entitlement and need for control are so pervasive, their primary relationships cannot be sustained. But, as Dr. Les Carter describes in the video, as the unraveling of the relationship seems inevitable, instead of taking personal responsibility, they build a case against you. As you recognize their tendencies, you will be positioned to respond with strength.
Our ex narc-elder is notorious for framing-up and building a case to smear anyone who would expose his wicked behavior; this systematic program of building a case against someone is part of his ‘faction’ protocol. He twists scripture to help build his false narrative against his target/victim and isolate ANYONE from seeking the truth through multiple witnesses (not false witnesses) and actual evidence. As the saying goes, there is always TWO sides to any story- our ex narc-elder thwarts any attempt to hear BOTH sides. It’s CULTISH!
Check out the video by Dr. Carter explaining how narcs build these cases.