Why Does the Narc-elder ‘Faction’ You Out

In our past spiritually abusive ‘church’ confusion and fear was in the air at all times. The effects of this fear and confusion were partly caused by the narc-elder devaluing and/or discarding certain folks in the fellowship. These people were either a threat to his charade (exposing him) or were in disagreement with him – it didn’t matter how small the disagreement was; he would start his devaluation if he felt the person couldn’t be molded to his side. The video below breaks this process of devaluation and discard.

SEVEN MIND GAMES PLAYED BY THE NARCISSIST :o)

Reminder: the text emoticon ‘ :o) ‘ was a trademark of our ex narc-elder. He would put this on emails to show his narc-smile in emails and texts. It always reminded me of a creepy clown-smile, especially now that I know what’s behind his mask. So, if we put this in text, it is in specific reference to our ex narc-elder, and his narc ways.

Please check out the video below and send constructive comments to ubmrecovery@gmail.com We would love to know if these seven mind games were played on you by your Narc.