Ways to Test Your Narc-elder

Six ways to test the Jezebel Spirit residing in the narc-elder:

1. Say ‘no’ when you want to.

2. Throw the narc a ‘fake’ bone. See if they run with something you reveal about yourself. They love getting info/dirt/insight on you so they can later use it against you.

3. Ask them open ended questions to see what they reveal.

4. Verify the information they provide you when you can.

5. Test for double standards.

6. Question their gossip.

Narcissists And Their Flying Monkeys

Using Flying Monkeys allows the narc-elder to wipe his hands from the main dirty work; in some cases, such as subornation of perjury, the narc-elder can claim plausible deniability. These monkeys are used in the narc-elder’s smear campaign of others, i.e., ‘the factious’ former members. The flying monkeys are brainwashed and believe the lies of the narc-elder. The monkeys are not allowed to investigate both sides of the story, they are only allowed to believe the narc-elder’s side – lest they be in disobedience to the narc-elder and God.