This would have saved me from so much pain and grief regarding our narc-elder. He would purposely be nice and agreeable with you about something that previously was a no-no, he would agree with a big smile on his face. I actually remember the time, place and where the narc-elder was sitting when he said it was okay to do thus-and-thus. At the time I thought: Wow! He’s become more understanding, maybe he has changed from the wicked Dr. Jackal (pun intended) he was before. Maybe there is hope with him and our relationship. Then, … like the corrupt/wicked Sherriff who said to the young boy, ‘It’s okay, go ahead and pick up the gun, I won’t hurt you. Look, I’m a police officer, we obey the law. It’s okay ‘son’ pick it up.’ Then the boy picks up the gun and the Sherriff guns him down. This is how our narc-elder would operate. I wanted to start the video below at about the 11:37 mark as Dr. Carter addresses this very thing. We recommend watching the whole video when you have time. As always, please send your constructive comments to ubmrecovery@gmail.com.
Psalms 82:4 Rescue the poor and needy: Deliver them out of the hand of the wicked.