Author: nathan_jehu

Narcissism is a fear-based pattern of life, yet most narcissists will deny how they are steeped in it. Often they will proclaim statements like, ‘Hey, Sis, look at me I have no fear’ of this or that,… while they project their toxic psychopathy onto their victims. They are LIARS, CHEATS, and THIEVES, and most importantly they are INSECURE. They have to put on a fake show for others because deep down inside, they are in fear of people seeing their true nature. I have dealt with these narcs (overt and covert) and by the grace of God, sniffed out their charade(s) early-on. Check out the >>video<< below by Dr. Carter regarding narcs who claim they have no fear.

Dr. Les Carter goes beyond the obvious signs of fear to expose many of the ways it can be displayed…in their anger, their need for control, and much more. Narcissists are stuck in their dysfunctions because they refuse to be honest about what drives them.

It is important to understand the traumatic damage caused by narcissistic abuse. Be patient with yourself as you heal– it takes time to recover.

Check out this >>> video <<< below from Dr. Carter regarding Post Traumatic Stress (PTS) caused by a Narcissist.

All sorts of ingredients are necessary for relationships to be rewarding and successful, but none is more crucial than trust. Healthy relationships require teamwork, good conflict resolution skills, understanding, humor, intentionality, encouragement, shared values, reliability, respect, availability, and patience. But without trust, none of those qualities can be sustained. Trust is the rock bottom foundation for relational success…in family systems, at work, in social circles, within political structures, and inside organizations.

Now, let’s consider the question: Do narcissists put a high premium upon building trust within their various relationships? Certainly, they desire loyalty, conformity, pleasure, measurable gain, goal attainment, and gratification. But trust is not among the qualities they engender. They may say they wish for trust to be found, but their definition of trust is quite self-serving.

Check out the following >>> video <<< for Dr. Carter’s presentation on this subject.

Narcissists, with their controlling, contrarian ways can emotionally wear you out. Dr. Les Carter cautions that as you are fatigued by them, bad habits can emerge, so he identifies the worst thing you can do to a narcissist as you try to find the better path. The bottom line is that you don’t need to become a mirror image of who they are.

Click >>> HERE <<< to watch the video.