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Are Narcissists Evil?

From our abusive experience, spiritual narcissists ARE evil.  Their very actions often contradict the teachings of the Bible/Jesus, such as: love your enemy, do good to them that despitefully use you, and forgive one another as I have forgiven you.

Spiritual Narcs (S-Narc) have an agenda and work very hard to maintain their facade to keep their charade going.  It might look good, but if you spend any time in the local fellowship you sense something is off, something smells bad.  The Narc-Elder typically has tools to keep people under his control such as the threat of shunning (‘faction protocol’) or fear and intimidation of missing God’s approval/blessings or actual physical curses or catostrophic events such as earthquakes, Planet X hitting the earth and other such silliness.  It would almost be funny if it wasn’t so seriously abusive to the victims.  This kind of fear, intimidation and control impedes victims of their relationship with God through the Holy Spirit.  The S-Narc places himself (or herself, i.e., a ‘Prophetess’) in place of the Holy Spirit though words of revelations and DREAMS.

WARNING!!!  When dreams are emphasized more than your personal relationship with Christ through the Holy Spirit, … RUN!  Start working on an escape strategy/plan.  We have a whole section dedicated on HOW TO ESCAPE.  You have to plan, else you risk things getting really bad with others in your abusive group.  Remember, people will react different ways to you leaving, so it’s best that NOBODY knows your plans until you are already escaping.  Again, see our Process Point section on Escape.

To get another angle on this subject, check out this article Kaleah LaRoche on evil narcissists. Click HERE for the link to the full article.

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How Narcissists Torture Others and Why They Believe They’re Right to Do It

Check out this great article from the Narcissist Family Files… :o)

As the saying goes, we often hurt the ones we love, but narcissists torture others deliberately and with little to no restraint.

Merriam-Webster defines torture as “the infliction of “intense pain to coerce, punish, or afford sadistic pleasure” and “anguish of body or mind.” Anyone who has had the misfortune of being targeted by a narcissist knows very well that torture is in fact precisely the word for the experience. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is by nature an abusive disorder because of the narcissist’s deficient development of ego and empathy, which leads him/her to compensate with a false vainglorious omnipotent persona in the absence of a moderating conscience.

Those closest to people with NPD, such as a partner/spouse and children, are at most risk of torturous behavior. It can range from psycho-emotional to physical and sexual, but it is inevitable because narcissists don’t care if they hurt others while at the same time are always attempting to exert control.

CLICK HERE FOR THE LINK TO THE WHOLE ARTICLE.