Narcissists have a strong need to be right. They need to project a sense of certainty as they attempt to be impressive and influential. Dr. Les Carter helps you see the insecurity they carry inwardly due to their inability to manage mystery, nuance, and diversity. They are driven by fearful ineptitude.

Our ex narc-elder had to be in control at all times– simply, he was afraid and insecure.

Check out this >>> VIDEO LINK <<< to Dr. Carter’s video about this topic.

There are all sorts of ways narcissists try to create confusion by gaslighting you. Once you become aware, you might call them out or challenge their mistreatment. Dr. Les Carter explains how they can then feel justified for the next round of gaslighting. They just cannot stop themselves, but you are not required to stay on their path to confusion.

Check out Dr. Carter’s Video >>> VIDEO <<<

Our ex Narc-elder presents a contemporary version of the Pharisees that Jesus rebuked; he is so delusional that he believes his own Kool-Aid and is an Uber-hypocrite >> :o)

Check out the following video from Shaneen Megji below.

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After the scales have fallen from your eyes about narcissistic toxicity in your religious group there is hope to escape, heal and rebuild your life and relationship with God. In order to escape with as little outgoing damage by the Narcissistic elder/pastor as possible, careful and deliberate planning must take place.

This >>>video<<< by Shaneen Megji lists seven steps to escape your toxic group unscathed.

I have been thinking deeply about narcissistic abuse and the hurt/damage it causes… while I am still examining and praying about this I feel God is telling me that forgiveness and love are the ultimate tools for healing and recovery.

Someone once said to me, [paraphrased]: ‘It’s more important to realize that although you may have been wronged, e.g., lied about, etc,… the Lord knows the truth. Many lied about Jesus as well.’

This letting-go and letting-God is a deep level of God’s work in us as we heal and recover. I am learning more and more, that despite the narcissistic abuse I may have endured, faith, hope and love are keys to healing and recovery,… and the greatest of these is LOVE. Regardless of our abuse, and who was right or wrong, we must forgive and in many cases we need God’s help to do this…. More on this topic later as it is revealed to me.