Because of the dysfunctional ingredients that lay at the base of narcissism, it is certain that narcissists will generate all sorts of difficulties in their relationships. But, as Dr. Les Carter explains, they refuse to take responsibility for the problems they create. Instead, they use various tricks to make you look like the difficult person. Knowledge is power, so as you recognize their tactics, you won’t fall into their traps.
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- Baiting You Into An Argument. Our ex narc-elder would use scripture to bait someone into an argument by asking: ‘You do believe that God can raise your wife/husband from the dead,… right?’ And when this person would say yes, he would say a prayer to raise their spouse from the dead; when it did not happen he would start blaming the widow/widower for not having faith. He would then argue that your dead spouse’s blood was on YOUR hands. Not a very Christian thing to do to a widow or widower, is it? This happened more than a few times with this narcissistic psychopath posing as a Godly pastor.
- Insisting That You Have To Justify Yourself. Our ex narc-elder would say things to get you to defend or justify your position then use scripture word-salads to confuse and gaslight.
- Shame You For Independent Thinking. Independent thinking was NOT allowed with our ex narc-elder; he established a ‘faction protocol’ where nobody in his cult could think outside his accepted dogma nor speak to anyone he deemed factious, especially outside his cult.
- You Are Responsible For Their Moods.
- Making Lame Excuses For Their Mistakes. Our ex narc-elder would make the most lame excuses when pressed about an obvious contradiction or blunder like: ‘Well, Bill I taught against a rigid church structure to prepare you for it.’
- Intimidate You As You Have Boundaries. Our ex narc-elder would resort to intimidation and harassment when you set clear boundaries against him. He is a demigod therefore he feels he can interject himself in any relationship, especially marriages in which he likes to divide and sow discord.
- Accuse YOU Of Being A Narcissist. Our ex narc-elder has been learning about narcissism since he’s being exposed recently; so he is talking about his enemies using ‘projection’ and other narc techniques when in-fact he is the one projecting. He thinks he is a double-agent, lol.